recoverr:

sending so much love to everyone who feels like they’re never chosen as the best friend, as the partner, as the favorite. sending love to all of you who have been treated and felt like second best. sending love to all of you who have felt rejected and unwanted. to all of you who have had to try really hard to fit in because you felt like you never will. 

you are so loved. you will be seen and heard by the right people. you can trust that you are valuable and not defined by other people’s perceptions of you. if someone doesn’t see your worth, it doesn’t mean it isn’t there.

firegfarchive-deactivated202106:

when men wear black turtlenecks. ok whore

shromo:

surprisebitch:

thighschool:

me as a doctor

that look says she bout to beat that doctor’s ass

getinmelanin011:

inthereellife:

mockingmolly:

mockingmolly:

thevastnessof:

i love when ppl who constantly use self deprecating humor interact with me, theyre never sure how to react. theyre like “lol well we all hate ourselves anyways” and im like “no, im sexy as hell actually” like oil and water everytime

Self-appreciating humor even when u 100% don’t believe what you’re saying is legitimately such an esteem-booster & i’d recommend everyone to try and replace deprecating jokes with exaggeratedly-positive & validating ones whenever u can

And tbh, it’s funnier/more comfortable for everyone involved anyway. Like, failing spectacularly at something but going “lol y’all WISH you had my talents” instead? Hilarious. Its funny, alleviates the pressure on other ppl to validate your negativity, AND even when what you’re saying “isn’t true” your brain still responds to hearing positive input & your attitude towards yourself & your situation becomes so much healthier after a while. This kind of thing has been proven to improve mental health & curb self-harming tendencies, as well as contribute to healthier social environments ;0;

Yes I do, actually 

I am not even remotely kidding. In middle school I would say some variation of “because I’m weird like that” a lot as a sort of apology for existing in anyway that could possibly be interpreted as different.

Then one day I decided to trade it for a phrase one of my closest friends used “because I’m awesome like that”.

Even though I was almost always saying it sarcastically, I can credit it with almost singlehandedly rescuing my self-esteem. @sivsi16 is completely right.

Yes, it was better for my brain. But also? The positive reinforcement that created from the people around me was incredible. Instead of them feeling uncomfortable and forcing a polite smile and response when I insulted myself, they got to easily smile and laugh and- more importantly?- experience a positive response to me. Which, guess what? Made people more comfortable talking with me, so they’d talk to me more. It helped me to stop feeling like an isolated outsider no one would want to be around.

Not to mention, when you respond with something like “because I’m awesome like that” sometimes you’ll get responses genuinely agreeing with that. And that’s awesome too.

transgirl-link:

tiktoksthataregood-ish:

-featherless

-biped

This is a man

just-shower-responses:

best-shower-thoughts:

humans are not the only animal to engage in homosexual activity, but they are the only animal that engage in being homophobic. (source)

wrong i limped my wrist at my cat and he attacked me

perpetualanachronisms:

firebirdscratches:

brazenautomaton:

mwg-7:

mwg-7:

i know vitamin c basically neutralizes adhd meds but lemonade good

yea lol

ADHD Medication information sheet

I have been struggling

For a long fucking time

with why my adderall was having such uneven effects and varying efficacy

and the weird pattern of what made it work and not work and if it was building up in my system or not

and fucking nobody told me I shouldn’t drink a glass of Kool-Aid to take the pills with

or eat fucking Pop-Tarts or Life cereal

this is the most useful information I have ever received from tubr and it seems to be confirmed by several other places upon searching

so this actually should be spread like wildfire like actually

Me reading this realizing tunglr dawt kom gave me more information about my medication than MYDOCTORRRRRSSSSSS MYYYYYYYY FUCKENNNNN DOCTORSSSSS PLURAL MULTIPLE DOCTORSSSSSSSS

Reblogging to spread this ridiculously important info

mintymankey:

spikespiegell:

when the power went out i heard an explosion and my boyfriend was like “a transformer probably busted” and i deadass thought he meant Optimus Prime was out there nutting

Made me think of this post

pseudomantis:

jerma food pyramid